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Pawel Brodzinski's avatar

OK, here's a challenge: Deming didn't strike me as a particular fan of fun or silliness. Isn't it entirely your filter that you envelop Deming in, because, well, you are you?

I don't say you're not right.

I just say it's you, not Deming.

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Patricia Grier's avatar

What you have said about teams brought up a memory of working in small businesses (less than 50) and what always seems to happen there. Often some owner or manager will say "oh we're like one big family here". Except that one can't get fired from family. Now, I've worked for small businesses where family was a big part of the business and it was usually clear that the family was different and that employees were a special part of the business. Yet it seems that I've heard the "we're like a family" usually in businesses where no family worked. The idea of a business's employees can be a toxic thing in part because of the not firing real family thing but also it assumes a lot about the families of employees. It assumes that everyone comes from a more or less stable home environment. That is not always the case. I've had this play out in a couple of different ways and it was never good.

So, teaching business owners not to see their employees as extended family but as a team is, I think, something that should be emphasized for every business of any size. Team members sometimes are traded away and that can be a good thing for both the employer and employer. It is more honest and less psychologically manipulative than the "we're family" thing. I recall several friends emotionally devastated when fired from the work family....

I wonder what you think of things like group trips that are meant to build more

of a sense of teamwork, as well as mandatory team building events that leech into workers' private lives?

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